From anger false beliefs arise and from these false beliefs confusion in memory occurs. Confusion results in loss of intelligence and rationality and once intelligence and rationality are lost it leads to destruction of man.
I read this line every day. I have put up a print on my office desk. I want to believe in it cause I know this is true. Anger can blow up a lot if things in life. Anger makes you say words that you don't probably mean.And not everytime will your anger be "understood" by others. You will not get away by them for the excuse "You know what forget it, I know he did not mean it. He was just angry". You might get away sometimes but surely not everytime. And this mistake can prove really costly. It can blow up relationships. It can blow up million dollar deals and just about everything. In return there is only pain and agony.
How many times it has happened in your life that you get angry on ur brother or sister or any other person who you know and then there is a fight. If at all you end up using those key harsh words just because of your anger the fight becomes more dramatic and then you are brought to a point where you just switch off from the person and not talk for a while.
Its incomparably harder to make or maintain a relationship than to ruin it. And YES ANGER WILL RUIN IT !.
I am finding ways myself to work around anger. One way that works for me is to just go quiet, give in to the argument, accept defeat. You are no small man if u accept defeat one time two time three time, chances are that fourth one will be your win. May be the other person might feel something's not right.
The very first line I wrote about the destruction of man was translated from the holy book Geeta.
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